A new blog post by Diana Lang for PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT CAFÉ
by Diana Lang
From a spiritual perspective, it’s pretty simple to attract your soulmate. But from the everyday perspective, you might not know it by the way it looks out there these days. Between depressing digital dating or worrying that all the good one’s are taken, it’s hard to believe that our guy could be out there somewhere.
But he is. And he is looking for you too!
From a spiritual point of view, none of our fears make any difference at all, of course. For the manifestation of true love is all about the Spiritual Laws of Intention, Magnetics and Receptivity.
The first spiritual law is ASK. Ask and it is given. Not so easy to do, of course, because we must ask purely, and without doubt. If we doubt our worthiness or our lovability, our manifestation of our dreams are diluted by exact proportion!
And, if we try too hard, we can repel our answer. Think of a person that feels desperate for a job that posts 500 resumes. That energy is palpable by text, by email, and by interview. People sense it. The more desperately we feel we need something, the more likely we are to repel it – in exact proportion. It is like an alchemical formula. And it is always correct.
Conversely, the more sure you are of your goal, the more you know it, feel it, and expect it, the more attractive you are to it. The woman who knows her man is coming – who is just waiting for him to show up, and knows that the timing will be perfect – meets her man at the gas station pump, bumps into him at the market, or he sits right down next to her on the bus! She can’t get it wrong, and she cannot miss him. And neither can he.
But how do you make yourself attractive to what you really, really want? The very word attractive holds the answer. It’s not about being more beautiful, or charming, or sexy, or clever. Those qualities are simply natural extensions of your intention and who you are. It’s about learning to become more magnetically attractive to what you want.
By setting your intention clearly, from your innermost self, you may not attract a hundred dates, but you will attract your one true love. And the good news is, one is all you need.
The 3 Spiritual Laws for Finding True Love
- ASK – Be very clear in your intention. Write it down. Feel it in your body. Expect it.
- PREPARE – Love yourself. Make your home, your life, and yourself attractive to YOU.
- RECEIVE – Be receptive. Stay open. Don’t get discouraged or impatient. Impatience is the greatest detriment to positive manifestation.
When your love comes you will know. It won’t be confusing or maybe. It will be sure as lightning. You will feel it in your bones. You will know it in your heart.
And you will recognize each other.
For, of course, it will be mutual.
Diana Lang is a spiritual teacher and author of OPENING TO MEDITATION www.DianaLang.com