\u201cMoney can\u2019t buy me love.\u201d\u00a0 <\/em> How you handle your finances with your partner will tell you a lot about what kind of a relationship you have. Right away, you can know if it\u2019s a generous relationship or a stingy one. Do you share your resources, pool them, or keep them separate? Do you share expenses mutually, or always keep a running tally in your head? These are important questions in a relationship. The bottom line, when it comes right down to it, is: how your partner is in relationship with their money is likely how they will be in relationship with you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n From a metaphysical perspective, everything is energy \u2014 even money \u2014 <\/strong> maybe, especially<\/em> money! The way we spend it, save it, share it, or hide it, are all indicative of how we feel about abundance, or the lack thereof.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n If you are paying attention, you can know right in the beginning of your romance what your partner\u2019s relationship is with money. It is evident in everything they do. Unfortunately, we might not see these signs, because in our need to make the relationship work, we may overlook some of the most blatant signs.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n Here\u2019s the hard truth: if someone is stingy with the waiter, they will likely be stingy with you \u2014 <\/strong>maybe not right away, but eventually. As nice as things may appear, or as good as everything might look on paper, if you read between the lines, you can see, if you\u2019ll look,<\/em> what your partner\u2019s financial philosophy is \u2014 and therefore where you may stand, too.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n So, pay attention. Remember, it is not about how much money a person has, or spending money we don\u2019t have, or being reckless with the money we do; it\u2019s about the energy<\/em> we have about it. It\u2019s about our relationship with money. Is it selfish or unselfish – whatever amount we have.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n And, of course, this works both ways. You need to examine your<\/em> relationship with money too. Where do you stand on the subject of money? Is there never enough, or is there more than enough? I can tell you for sure that people will come to the same monetary conclusions over and over again, based on their fundamental financial philosophy, no matter how much they have, or don\u2019t have.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n Because it\u2019s not about how much money you have. It\u2019s about WHATEVER money there is.<\/strong> If it\u2019s $5 or $500, $5,000 or $5,000,000 \u2014 it\u2019s all the same. It\u2019s our relationship<\/em> with money that we\u2019re talking about here. Are we miserly or charitable? A person can be as tight OR as generous over $5 as much as with $5,000. It is all relative.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n And, if this person is going to be<\/em> your relative, then it\u2019s worth your time to observe their relationship with money. Are they calculating or magnanimous? Are they honest and ethical in their business dealings, or greedy and bending the rules? Does your partner save money, loan money, gamble money, or give money? If they give it, do they expect something in return?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n Sigh… the return<\/em>. This is the bottom line. In the grim, monetary, business-is-business<\/em> world, the return on investment IS the bottom line. But in the world of relationship, it is the death knell. Love is not a business transaction. So beware the man (or woman) who thinks so.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n Like in all things relationship, communication is the bridge for better financial relationship happiness. In a healthy relationship, there should not be any taboo subjects. Subjects that are off the table, tell you where the problems will<\/em> be.<\/strong> If your partner won\u2019t talk about money issues, there is<\/em> a money issue. If they won\u2019t talk about their mother, there are<\/em> mother issues. Get it?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n So, be aware. Money can be a difficult subject. People sometimes feel that they can keep it separate somehow, because it is about numbers. It seems black and white. But the very black-and-whiteness of this money perspective can be the literal measuring stick of how much we will let ourselves be connected to someone. Are we \u201call in\u201d or not? Money is not a separate subject. It is a living demonstration and expression of how connected we can be!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n Love is inherently generous. Love is sincerely unselfish. Love is wholly sharing,<\/strong> what little or much we may have. If money is where we draw the line, then that very line, describes the depth of what our relationship can be. And that, my friends, is the real<\/em> bottom line.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n Diana Lang is a spiritual teacher and author of OPENING TO MEDITATION -www.DianaLang.com<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n![\"Love](\"https:\/\/dianalang.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/Love-is-greater-than-Money-300x225.jpg\")
~ reposted from the Huffington Post<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n
\n~The Beatles<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n